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posted by: bacardibreezer (reply) post date: 10.17.05 (2:14 pm) hey, I think you should stay away from men for a while and just spend time with yourself...obviously they do bad things to you and you don't need it...that or get a chick :p posted by: Concerned reader of “The Blog” (reply) post date: 10.17.05 (2:23 pm) I think that sence you don't have someone to talk to about this issues that you trust to not judge you ar think difrently about you, that you use this blog to express your feelings. You just need to learn that there are people out there that do care and will listen to you if you have problems. Now some are better than others, but you will have to decide which ones are worthy of your trust. Just sit down and take the time to thing about each one, then decide. About the putting your focus on other things, sometimes it is best to put your mind on other things to get your berrings back. Just don't cut everyone that you care about off b/c it will be hard to get them back. I have done that before. posted by: ScubaDiva (reply) post date: 10.20.05 (3:07 am) Let's start with the basics... Close your eyes (well, not until after you're finished reading this). In your wildest (well, considering you - maybe not THAT wild) dreams, what do you want? Do you want a committed relationship? What would that look like? What qualities are important to you ? What things are negotiable (ie a smoker, he has kids, etc)? And what is non-negotiable (he's in prison, etc). Then you have to realize that if a man doesn't fit the bill, you deserve better than the one that is distracting you. So then you need to figure out why you put up with someone that is less than you deserve? Are you sabotaging yourself? End of therapy session. Now you can close your eyes. |
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Thus we refute entropy. --Spider Robinson STRESS MANAGEMENT: A VISUALIZATION Picture yourself near a stream. Birds are singing in the crisp, cool mountain air. Nothing can bother you here. No one knows this secret place. You are in total seclusion from that place called the world. The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity. The water is clear. You can easily make out the face of the person whose head you're holding under the water... There now, feeling better? Source: Mental Health Net "Show me a sane man and I will cure him for you." Carl Gustav Jung "In saying what is obvious, never choose cunning. Yelling works better." Cynthia Ozick "Being misunderstood by someone is vexation. Being misunderstood by everyone is tragedy." Liu Shahe |